Sibiling Abroad

I often jokingly (yet, seriously) invite people to join me on trips because my sharing an upcoming adventure is typically met with, “oh, wow’s,” and, “I wish I could go’s.”  Pues, venga!  Life is short and usually more fun with company.

So, guess who visited me abroad?! I planted a seed of interest when I gushed over my Spanish vacation in the spring, and it wasn’t long before my sister and her hubby were shopping for airline deals for a fall getaway. (Convinced my other sister to travel to The Netherlands with me last year.)

They weren’t able to get the time off until my last ten days abroad, but it filled my final week with activities and adventure when I was at a point of, this is almost over and I don’t know what the fuck to do now.

We spent one day walking all around the palace grounds, various plazas and the temple, finishing the afternoon at Casa Mingo with a bottle of cider.

We spent another in Toledo that didn’t give us the sunny skies we had hoped for, but we still walked all over and ticked off the things we wanted to do there like the mirador view and a visit to Mariano Zamorano.

We had a failed wine tour attempt in Navalcarnero, however, the trip was salvaged by the amazing hospitality at Bodegas Andrés Díaz and the cool tunnel system at Las Cuevas del Carnero.

We ate and drank like we had two stomachs and livers and spent afternoons walking off the calories around La Latina, Sol, Malasaña and Chueca. (We were in Chueca visiting my favorite ice cream shop, Labonata, and doing oddball things the day Greta Thunberg had a rally at Atocha.)

I showed them some of my favorite places and discoveries and gave them space to find their own. The week went by incredibly fast. The day their flight took them back to Texas was my last full one in the city.

I plan on wrapping up my Madrid chapter on Practically Foreign with one more post. These days I’m on the hunt for the next adventure (which primarily consists of looking for a cool-ass job that is coming together in little, synchronistic bits and making me feel pretty excited about 2020).

Naples and Pompeii

As previously mentioned, these next couple of posts are catch-ups to what happened between Thanksgiving and my last night abroad.  It was a lot of stuff crammed into my last 12 days!  I didn’t have time to sit down and write it all out.

Backtracking now:  with only a month left in Madrid, I was running out of time to try to squeeze in one more big European excursion.  I had 4 must see places noted before I left Houston that I hadn’t finished checking off: Buñol, Munich, Pompeii and Marrakech. 

Oh, yes.  The African continent spoke to me well before I arrived in Europe.  The colors, the exotic cuisine and scents – I could see myself there smelling and tasting the flavors in the air with excited eyes taunted by shop windows.  I was a click away – seriously, one little click – from booking Marrakech in October.  But in that moment, my gut feeling pulled me away. 
The timing didn’t feel right, the planning wasn’t good, I didn’t want to take a camel ride in the desert with a bunch of strangers – I decided this will have to wait.  The country had called my name, but the feeling wasn’t there anymore.  It’s ok!  Morocco will happen eventually. (Pinning it right next to seeing Lola Marsh live some day.)
 
So, it was me and Skyscanner trying to figure out one last cheap getaway.  Paris, Porto and Milan were the frontrunners for cheapest flights.  Milan was another very close booking.  But I stopped myself and thought, Kat, you really want to go to Pompeii – quit fucking around and go there. 

√ Check.

The weather was lovely and temperate with peek-a-boo sunshine as I waited at the Naples airport for the Alibus to take me into the city.  The drop-off was an 8-minute walk from my bnb and my first impression of the city was… chaos.  People were walking in front of cars and mopeds while those same vehicles maneuvered around them and sped off inches away from other people spilling into the streets.  Some of the streets looked too seedy and dark to be safe passages. I was a little scared, to be honest. 

My bnb host saw me first and yelled for me to cross the street when I glanced in his direction. He was incredibly sweet and fed me a cherry tart and a slice of coffee cake (his wife made) before showing me the room.  I knew the bnb had a nice view from somewhere as many of the reviews noted, but I assumed it was from a communal space like a rooftop lounge.  I couldn’t believe my eyes when he opened the door.  I was 12 stories high with a private balcony facing Mount Vesuvius and the harbor.  It was spectacular.

The host left me to settle in and I sat outside nibbling on treats watching clouds follow the wind.  I had a short rest while my phone charged up and it wasn’t long before I was on the hunt for pizza.  I did a quick search for best pizza around the city and found one just up the road with thousands of positive reviews. 

It was only about a 30-minute wait in a much less chaotic street before they called my number.  I found an empty seat in the back room at a table with some friendly people from Thailand who had spent the week in Sorrento and Rome.  It was another 30 minutes before the pizza came out so I had plenty of time to absorb my surroundings to see what kind of charm this old pizzeria boasted.

Haha!  Holy shit, this picture cracks me up.  I swear I had no idea beforehand this place was that place!  I actually saw Eat Pray Love for the first time just a few months ago while I was in Madrid.
So, there I sat in one of the oldest, most famous pizzerias in the birth city of pizzas awaiting the finished product of a recipe that hasn’t changed since its inception in 1870.  With Julia watching me.

Was it delicious?  Hell yes!  Was it my favorite pizza ever?  Well, while it was very, very tasty, I definitely prefer a crispy crust and I’m not sure if it beat what I believe to be the best margherita pizza I’ve ever had (from Dough Pizzeria in San Antonio, TX of all places). 
If you think this Texan is biased, then please send your favorite pizza for judgement to the address at the end of this post.

Eating almost an entire pizza didn’t discourage me from squeezing some gelato in my belly after walking around the Christmas market.  I had 3 days to fit as much authentic Italian food as I could stomach and I wasn’t wasting a minute! 

I stumbled upon a card game on my walk back to the hotel and lingered in the back of a small crowd of older gentlemen watching.  One of the players noticed a pretty lady in the back and invited me to sit at the table.  We chatted in brief intervals – he was very focused on the game.  He was from Naples, but now lives in South Africa for work.  He then told me he wanted to invite his son to come out and meet me.  Alright, I thought, maybe I should pray on finding love after consuming my weight in pizza dough. 

His son and I went to a bar down the road where we discussed our jobs and travels and *gag* politics.  Lots of Europeans have been interested in my viewpoint on American politics and I’m slightly embarrassed (yet, simultaneously, uninterested to do anything about my ignorance on the topic) that they seem to know more than I do. 
It was a bit of a strange ending – a friend of his working the bar came to tell him some unfortunate news about another friend and he apologized for having to suddenly leave.  But I also thought he said he was coming back, so I sat there for a while until I guessed he wasn’t.  Hopefully, his friend is ok.

The next day I ate another yummy pastry courtesy of the host’s wife, a few cookies, toast and a coffee to wash it all down while I sat on the balcony blinded by the sun rising above Mount Vesuvius.  My host tried to feed me freshly baked croissants on my way out for Pompeii, but I was too full to accept.

It was a short walk to the train and a cheap, comfortable ride to the Pompeii station with nice views of the volcano to the east and the bay to the west. 
I was a little concerned about the crowd gathering towards the ticket queue upon exiting the train.  November is supposed to be a less popular time of year for Pompeii tourists, but it was a Saturday.

The queue, however, was quick and I was soon walking towards the entrance with my cash-only ticket.  (Repeat: cash-only.)  I didn’t really know what to expect beyond the park entrance platform.  Images I’d seen online were mostly of statues, mummies and the same open courtyard facing the volcano. 

There is so much more to be found in the enormous excavated city.  I walked around with a few crowds of people for an hour until finally I was nearly alone heading north towards the Villa of the Mysteries.  The less people, noise and camera flashes around me, the more I could sense what being there felt like.  It was peaceful, but a heaviness surrounded me as I walked down the paths of stone and volcanic rock, bits of which undoubtedly were remnants of fallen buildings.  I was especially pained by the mummies contorted in anguish.
I marveled at what was still standing, so wonderfully preserved and, despite the heaviness, I could envision the life and glory of the city before the eruption. 

Something I thought really interesting was the piping system that could be seen peaking through broken walls.  I later found articles about the impressive plumbing systems Romans built and the theory of how lead poisoning may have aided in their downfall. 

I met someone, when I was somewhere around the House of the Vettii, who was looking for the amphitheater.  I was considering leaving soon, but having company sounded nice.  We walked in and out of gardens, houses and the like along the way.  We chatted about family and work.  We finally found the theatre about a mile from where we met.  It looked perfectly preserved like so many other things throughout the city.  I didn’t know at the time that it’s today’s oldest surviving Roman amphitheater and the oldest known to be built from stone. 
I was ready to go after we finished walking around it, so we soon said our goodbyes.  He wanted to stay a bit longer before his evening departure to Germany and I wanted to watch the sunset from my balcony. 

It was a drastically different experience having someone with me to discuss the sights.  I enjoyed the company, especially since I wouldn’t have seen the theatre without him.  For a place like Pompeii, though, I favored the experience in solitude.

I watched the sun’s lingering rays vanish as the sky transitioned from blue to pink to darkness.  It was a bit early for dinner, but all I had for lunch was a small muffin I stowed from breakfast.  It felt like a pasta night. 
L’Antica made selecting pizza easy by offering only two choices.  Cala la Pasta had 20 dishes.  Some minutes later, I settled on gnocchi and it was another delicious (and filling) plate.  I walked around a bit again before heading back to the bnb for the night.  No room for gelato that time.

On my last day, I awoke before the sun peeked its bright rays from above the distant mountains.  A fog hung low encircling the volcano’s base hiding away part of the city.  I sat on the balcony with a cup of coffee and watched it slowly clear away. I couldn’t get enough of this view.

I had a late flight out and wanted to visit at least one museum before leaving.  Of course, I turned my attention to the nearby contemporary art museum.  As luck would have it, they offered free entrance on the first Sunday of every month.  It was cool.  I particularly liked Yeesookyung’s Moonlight Crown exhibit. 

My goal after was to eat at another popular pizza restaurant, but it was located in the thick of the Christmas market area.  I found the restaurant swarmed by dozens of people standing in a semi-circle, presumably waiting to order.  My anxiety couldn’t handle it so I walked far away from the area before searching for another restaurant.  A lot of eateries were closed, but I found a well rated joint, that wasn’t crazy packed, where I got to try a pizza fritta.  I had never had anything like it before and really liked the different flavor profile – and the crispy bits!

What other Italian things do I need to do, I thought to myself as I left the restaurant.  I still had hours to go before my flight.
Derp, coffee!  All the coffee I had so far was from the bnb. I needed to experience a coffeeshop. 
I ordered a cappuccino that was another delicious find and hung out on the patio of this very tiny café where I watched people scurry about (and wished I had booked an earlier flight).  I don’t know which is worse; waiting all day for a 7pm flight (plus an extra hour for the guaranteed Iberia Express delay) or barely sleeping the night before a 7am flight.

There wasn’t anything else I wanted to do and I was too full to eat or drink anymore. I walked across the street from the café to wait at a local bus stop that was way cheaper than the Alibus and droped off a mere 15-minute walk away from the airport.  I was halfway there when a view opened to the south and I saw the city from a completely new and gorgeous perspective.  I hopped off the bus and walked along the road trying to capture the amazing backdrop of Mount Vesuvius to the southeast and the city in the hills to the southwest.  The partially covered sun hung low over the hills casting a golden tone across the staggered buildings below.
I couldn’t have imagined a better ending.

To the Last Night in Madrid

I’m going a bit out of order with the events that have unfolded since Thanksgiving, but this is the energy I want to acknowledge right now.
It’s my last night in Madrid.  I’ve eaten the last of my food and am currently drinking the last of my wine and thinking about how I feel in this moment.  I feel ready to leave, ready for what’s next.  I feel a bit melancholy.  And a bit anxious because airports and shit. 
I spent the day alone, but I think I needed that to really soak up the end of this experience without distraction.  The weather was nice today so I walked around outside of the palace grounds and the Templo de Debod.  I stopped at a restaurant on my way back to the apartment for one more Mahou Clasica de barril.  I watched the sun shine its last rays over Dalieda de San Francisco.   
There are so many things here I am going to miss.  When I started this journey, I was open to opportunities abroad for work.  Open to love.  Open to finding a home. I was seeking things I haven’t yet discovered.  Soulful things.  I hoped for a lot of these things to happen, but I realized kind of early on that Madrid isn’t… it.  At least, not at this time in my life.  Now, I’m ready to see where the next chapter leads. 

To the city I fell in love with, to the people who enriched my time here, to the memories – salud.

A Spanish Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving was a hodgepodge of emotions for me.  I was missing my family and our traditional celebration and, akin to the last post’s theme, I was scared of spending the holiday alone.  It was a ridiculous fear that sporadically loomed around me as I cooked for friends who said they were coming to dinner.  But the rest of the time I felt eager to share my cooking and the holiday with people I had befriended here. 
I love cooking almost as much as I love eating.

I chose a simple dinner plan with a little Spanish fusion: mashed sweet potatoes with walnuts (porque aparentemente, en la tierra de españa, las pacanas no existen – a southern girl’s Thanksgiving nightmare), green beans with fried onions and a tapas style deli turkey, cheese and bread plate accompanied with homemade deviled eggs. It was very un-Spanish of me to leave out the jamón for tapas, but no one would have eaten the turkey if I hadn’t. One friend brought some cookies from the Monasterio del Corpus Christi and everyone one else brought Spanish booze.

A couple of friends asked me how Thanksgiving came to be and what exactly is celebrated.  I told them bits of the cheery kid story I knew from school, but mentioned it leaves out some darker facts. I told them I cherish the holiday because it’s always such a great celebration with loved ones I don’t regularly see.
I didn’t get to see those relatives this year, but this Thanksgiving turned out to be particularly special for a lot of other reasons. 

I felt so much gratitude as I looked around the table at these people I hadn’t known for very long -and who were all just meeting each other for the first time- come together to share the unfamiliar occasion with me.
Shortly after dinner, my sister Skyped in as a response to the text I forgot I sent her when one friend requested to meet my family.  It was such a beautiful thing to see them and sort of combine our celebrations for a moment.
Stories and jokes spoken in a mix of Spanish, German and English continued through the evening while my friends nibbled on cookies and worked through a second bottle of wine. 

The parting was a little emotional because I knew it was likely the last time I’d see them in the flesh.  Luckily, things like Skype make it seem like we aren’t so far away.
   
Travelling solo can be hard, but with the hardest days come the best ones, too.  This was one of the best.